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The Empower Letter with Mark Bowser
September 2007

Dear Don,

Welcome to The Empower Newsletter!

In this issue we are going to help you improve your leadership skills. Leadership is about influence. Everyday, we are influenced by other people. On the other hand, everyday we also influence people. How is your influence today? Are you being influenced by the right people, the champions in life? Are you influencing people down the path of success? However you answer those questions today, let myself and Dr. John C. Maxwell influence you on the power of effective leadership. I hope you enjoy this issue.

Have an awesome day!. God bless you!

Mark Bowser

JEREMIAH 29:11

In this issue
  • Featured Article
  • Your Five Mentors To Success
    by Mark Bowser
  • The Blind Spot

    By Dr. John C. Maxwell
  • Quotes to Live By!

  • Your Five Mentors To Success
    by Mark Bowser

    Imagine that you walk into your local library searching for answers. What answers you ask? The answers to success and happiness. You walk through the racks of books....wandering about aimlessly until....something catches your eye. It is a small book on the top shelf on the left side of the rack. You reach for it and can barely get your fingers on it. As you pull it off the shelf, dust falls on your forehead. You think to yourself, "It is obvious this book hasn't been read in a long time." But there is something about this book that rivets your attention. The title grabs you. Your Five Mentors To Success. Who wrote this book? The author's name is missing. You have got to read this book.

    As you reach the front of the line to check out your book, the librarian looks at you with a puzzled expression. She asks, "Where did you get this book?" You point to a rack of books on the back side of the library. She continues, "This is not one of our books. It doesn't belong to the library." She hands you the book and says, "It is yours now. Enjoy."

    You walk out of the library stunned at what just happened. "I wander where this book came from?" You run your hand over the worn, torn, leather cover. You find the first bench you find and begin to read.

    You open the book to the first chapter. It reads, Tongue Tied for Success. You think of this as kind of an odd title. You read about a man who was born with a tongue that didn't work. This man believed he had something to say. Something the world needed to hear. You are amazed at his determination. This man went out into the forest everyday where by himself he would practice and will his tongue to work. Day after day, month after month, year after year...until the day came where this champion became one of the greatest speakers in Greek history. His name was Demosthenes.

    The second chapter title reads, Determined to Not Quit. You learn about Bruce Olson. In 1961, Bruce was a determined nineteen year old. He was determined not to change the whole world, just one part of it. Bruce wanted to become a Christian missionary to the Motilone Indians from the jungles of Venezuela.

    The Motilone Indians were a violent tribe which was known for their vicious attacks. In the previous fifteen years, the tribe had killed more than 500 oil field workers. What would Bruce be walking into? No matter what, he was committed and determined.

    He had no financial backing so he would have to fund the journey himself. That in and of itself would shy away most nineteen year olds. But not Bruce.

    The day finally came when Bruce walked into the jungle and made his first contact with the Motilone Indians. The first sign of the tribe was a small rustle in the bushes. The next thing Bruce knew was a shooting pain in his leg as of a result from the arrow sticking out of it. Lying on the ground, he was soon surrounded by a group of the savages. They poked hole after hole into Bruce with their spears. Was this the end? Had he come so far just to be killed within minutes of first contact?

    Bruce was carried back to their village as their prisoner. Would they torture him? What were they waiting for? Maybe they were cannibals. Three days after his capture, Bruce came down with amoebic dysentery. He knew his days were numbered if he didn't escape. Under the darkness of night, Bruce made his escape and was able to make it to help and medical attention.

    After recovering from his first experience with the Motilones, Bruce ventured back into the dense jungle to attempt contact again. Soon, he was captured again. This time Bruce came down with hepatitis. Bruce managed to escape death again when a helicopter spotted his distress signal. The Motilones thought the helicopter was a great bird sent by God to take Bruce to heaven to keep them from killing him.

    On his third trip back into the jungle, Bruce was slowly and finally accepted by the Motilone Indians. They couldn't believe he had returned. Eventually, Bruce was able to share his Christian faith in Jesus Christ with the Indians.

    The third chapter title reads, The Beautiful Sounds I can't Hear. You read about Ludwig von Beethoven. "I didn't know he was deaf," you think to yourself. How did he create such beautiful music when he couldn't hear?

    The fourth chapter is titled, From Blind to Paradise. You read about the great writer John Milton. He was blind? How did he create such incredible word pictures for us? You think about the first time you read the poems Paradise Lost and Paradise Regained.

    You can hardly wait to get to the fifth chapter of this little book. Who will be your fifth mentor? This chapter is simply titled Freedom.

    The chapter begins...The rebellion had been thoroughly crushed. On December 8, 1776, General George Washington took what was left of his battered troops and made his escape across the Delaware River into Pennsylvania. As the last American troops began crossing the river, the first Redcoat pursuers arrived at the riverbank. However, they were unable to follow the worn out Americans because Washington had had the foresight to take with him every boat within fifty miles.

    Freedoms dream appeared to be dead. The American forces had dwindled to only 5,000 soldiers. With enlistments about to retire at the first of the year, Washington could be left with only 1,200 regulars. The one bright spot was that the over confident British decided to hold up for the winter and take care of what was left of the rebels come spring. British General William Howe took his troops to New York City to enjoy the winter months in relative ease and comfort. Howe did however leave a garrison of German mercenaries called Hessians in Trenton, NJ.

    The Hessians expected Washington to attack. In fact, they were exhausted by being on alert for more than a week because of this expectation. This worked to Washington's favor and he did not disappoint the Hessians. At mid-afternoon Christmas day, Washington and 2,400 of his troops marched nine miles up river to McKonkey's Ferry. At 6:00 PM, General Washington wrote in his diary, "It is fearfully cold and raw and a snow storm setting in. The wind is northeast and beats in the faces of the men. It will be a terrible night for the soldiers who have no shoes. Some of them have old rags tied around their feet, but I have not heard a man complain."

    During the darkness of night in a storm mixed with snow, rain, and hail, Washington and his troops began crossing the Delaware River. It took almost nine hours for the Continental Army to reach the other side. By 4:00 AM, the Continental Army had crossed the river. The Patriots were cold, wet, and exhausted. Washington urged his men forward. Some of the soldiers left a trail of blood from their bare exposed feet.

    When the attack began, the Americans gained the upper hand partly due to the Hessians' exhaustion. When the Hessians finally tried to assemble their troops, American artillery captain Alexander Hamilton was given the order to fire the cannons at point blank range. The battle was over within two hours. Freedoms dream was alive! That day, Washington and his men killed or captured 1000 Hessians and confiscated many supplies. Washington then took his troops, prisoners, and captured supplies back across the Delaware River victoriously.

    You close the little book amazed at what you just read and learned. Despite their many handicaps and obstructions, these five mentors found a way to succeed. As you begin to walk home, you make a decision....to succeed. You say out loud to yourself, "It is about belief and decision. That is it!"

    Isn't that how life is? Belief and Decision. I am so glad that you picked up Unlocking the Champion Within. Of all the books you could have chosen, you chose this one. I am honored. And I am committed to showing you the path to your success. I can't walk that path for you, but I can help light your path. You will face struggles along the way, but if you hold onto your belief and decision then you will succeed.

    A number of years ago, as I was struggling both in my personal life as well as my professional life, I had a friend who cared enough about me that he handed me a video tape. On that tape was a speaker. The speaker wasn't talking just to me, but on that day it was as if he were talking only to me. Though the words he used were few, they ultimately changed my life. In a booming voice that knocked off the cobwebs of mediocrity, the speaker said, "YOU HAVE GREATNESS WITHIN YOU!" I believed him and partly because of that is why you are able to read this book today.

    My friend, I know something about you. Even though I may never have the privilege of meeting you face to face, I still know something about you. What I know is that you too "HAVE GREATNESS WITHIN YOU!" You see, you and I were born with the seeds of a champion and we were created by God to live the best. And that is what this book is all about....Living the Best! In this book, we are going to unlock the champion inside you. We are going to discover the qualities of the Champion and how to live them in our lives. And my friend, I encourage you not just to read this book, I encourage you to live this book. Take action on what we will learn together. Because when we act upon what we learn, that is when success truly begins and we begin to live the best as Champions.

    I am honored and blessed to be your guide on your journey of success!

    Mark E. Bowser

    Excerpted from Mark's book Unlocking the Champion Within which is due to be released in October 2007.



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    The Blind Spot

    By Dr. John C. Maxwell

    I have almost died on several occasions. I'd like to blame these near-death experiences on others, but I suppose they might have something to do with me. Let me explain...
    Anyone who has driven for a length of time in Atlanta can testify to the horrors of its traffic situation. I'm sure other cities can make the claim of worst traffic in America, but I can't imagine anyplace worse than Atlanta. To complicate the problem, I wouldn't describe myself as a particularly patient person. In fact, my wife might describe me as downright impatient-and she would probably be right.

    When in traffic, I've always subscribed to the bob-and-weave philosophy. If rampant lane changing can save me a car length or two, then I'll switch lanes like Liz Taylor switches husbands.

    Unfortunately, there have been a few instances when I've not been diligent in checking my blind spot when shifting lanes. And, let me tell you, nothing jolts a person like the angry honking of a car horn only a few inches to his left or right! Thankfully, I've been able to survive without crashing or receiving anything worse than a friendly wave of the middle finger from a fellow driver. Since my blind spot has nearly caused my demise several times, I now pay extra attention to it. I double and triple confirm no cars are there before I merge into another lane.

    Blind spots can wreck a leader's journey. In this edition of LW, I would like illustrate one of the most common blind spots I have observed in leaders. Next edition, I'll explore a second customary blind spot faced by leaders, and in each lesson, I'll give you advice for avoiding the dangers of the blind spot.

    THE BLIND SPOT
    The Blind Spot - An area in the lives of people in which they continually do not see themselves or their situation realistically. This unawareness often causes great damage to the people and those around them.

    WHY WE ARE BLIND - A SINGULAR PERSPECTIVE
    Most every leader has a blind spot, in fact, all probably do. We are trapped in our own perspectives, unable to see the world completely from another person's point of view. We are absorbed in our world, caught in our present circumstances, consumed by selfish thoughts, and confined by our narrow experiences.

    To illustrate, consider King George III of England's journal entry on July 4, 1776: "Nothing happened today." Of course, unbeknownst to King George, the American Declaration of Independence had been issued that day, and it would change the course of history.

    One reason for our singular perspective can be attributed to our self-perception, or attitude toward self. As I wrote in the Lens Principle: who we are determines how we see others. A naïve optimist may be blind to the less-than-ideal intentions of those around them. Oppositely, an eternal pessimist may be blind to the kindness of a co-worker, instead suspecting ulterior motives.

    A second cause of singular perspective comes from our tendency to judge ourselves based on intentions, while judging others by their actions. Such a bias allows us to cut ourselves slack and to justify our actions, because, after all, we meant well. However, since we aren't able to see the motives of others, we evaluate them solely by their actions. We attribute shortcomings in their behavior to shortfalls in character without regard for their present circumstances, mood, or emotional frame of mind.

    We are fully aware of our history, but ignorant of the background of others. For this reason, context is the third and final cause of a blinding singular perspective. Decisions we take make perfect sense to us given our beliefs and experiences, but they may surprise others who are not as familiar with us. On the other hand, since we don't know the particulars of another person's childhood, past relationships, or prior involvements, we often have trouble conceiving why the person acts the way he or she does.

    CHECKING YOUR BLIND SPOT - OPENING UP TO THE PERSPECTIVES OF OTHERS
    As trite as it may sound, putting yourself in another person's shoes does open you to their perspective. To broaden your limited perspective, try to envision their opinions and feelings. Attempt to be aware of their motives and the values they hold dear.

    Leaders avoid the blind spot of singular perspective when they seek to understand before seeking to be understood. As I wrote in Winning with People, "The entire world, with one small exception, is composed of others." Followers are focused inwardly, and they wonder, "How will this affect me?" Conversely, leaders are focused outwardly, and they ask, "How will this affect others?"

    Finally, leaders may avoid the blind spot of singular perspective by examining themselves before casting blame on others. As Jesus of Nazareth taught, "Don't pick on people, jump on their failures, or criticize their faults- unless, of course, you want the same treatment. That critical spirit has a way of boomeranging. It's easy to see a smudge on your neighbor's face and be oblivious to the ugly sneer on your own," (Matthew 7:1-3, The Message).

    "This article is used by permission from Dr. John C. Maxwell's free monthly e-newsletter 'Leadership Wired' available at www.injoy.com. "

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    Quotes to Live By!

    "Nothing is particularly hard if you divide it into small jobs."
    ~ Henry Ford

    "Great things are not done by impulse, but by a series of small things brought together."
    ~ Vincent van Gogh

    "I think and think for months, for years. Ninety-nine times the conclusion is false. The hundredth time I am right."
    ~ Albert Einstein

    "Much rain wears the marble."
    ~ William Shakespeare

    "Inches make a champion."
    ~ Vince Lombardi

    "Little strokes fell great oaks."
    ~ Benjamin Franklin

    "We cannot do everything at once, but we can do something at once."
    ~ Calvin Coolidge

    "Great issues develop from small beginnings."
    ~ Norman Vincent Peale

    "An idea is the greatest investment."
    ~ Mark Bowser

    "But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves. For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man observing his natural face in a mirror; for he observes himself, goes away, and immediately forgets what kind of man he was."
    ~ James 1:22-24 NKJV of the Holy Bible

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