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Dear Don,
Welcome to The
Empower Newsletter!
In this issue we are going to help you
improve your leadership skills. Leadership
is about influence. Everyday, we are
influenced by other people. On the other
hand, everyday we also influence people. How
is your influence today? Are you being
influenced by the right people, the champions
in life? Are you influencing people down the
path of success? However you answer those
questions today, let myself and Dr. John C.
Maxwell influence you on the power of
effective leadership. I hope you enjoy this
issue.
Have an awesome day!. God bless you!
Mark Bowser
JEREMIAH 29:11
Your Five Mentors To Success by Mark Bowser |
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Imagine that you walk into your local library
searching for answers. What answers you ask?
The answers to success and happiness. You
walk through the racks of books....wandering
about aimlessly until....something catches
your eye. It is a small book on the top
shelf on the left side of the rack. You
reach for it and can barely get your fingers
on it. As you pull it off the shelf, dust
falls on your forehead. You think to
yourself, "It is obvious this book hasn't
been read in a long time." But there is
something about this book that rivets your
attention. The title grabs you. Your Five
Mentors To Success. Who wrote this book?
The author's name is missing. You have got
to read this book.
As you reach the front of the line to check
out your book, the librarian looks at you
with a puzzled expression. She asks, "Where
did you get this book?" You point to a rack
of books on the back side of the library.
She continues, "This is not one of our books.
It doesn't belong to the library." She
hands you the book and says, "It is yours
now. Enjoy."
You walk out of the library stunned at what
just happened. "I wander where this book
came from?" You run your hand over the worn,
torn, leather cover. You find the first
bench you find and begin to read.
You open the book to the first chapter. It
reads, Tongue Tied for Success. You think of
this as kind of an odd title. You read about
a man who was born with a tongue that didn't
work. This man believed he had something to
say. Something the world needed to hear.
You are amazed at his determination. This
man went out into the forest everyday where
by himself he would practice and will his
tongue to work. Day after day, month after
month, year after year...until the day came
where this champion became one of the
greatest speakers in Greek history. His name
was Demosthenes.
The second chapter title reads, Determined to
Not Quit. You learn about Bruce Olson. In
1961, Bruce was a determined nineteen year
old. He was determined not to change the
whole world, just one part of it. Bruce
wanted to become a Christian missionary to
the Motilone Indians from the jungles of
Venezuela.
The Motilone Indians were a violent tribe
which was known for their vicious attacks.
In the previous fifteen years, the tribe had
killed more than 500 oil field workers. What
would Bruce be walking into? No matter what,
he was committed and determined.
He had no financial backing so he would have
to fund the journey himself. That in and of
itself would shy away most nineteen year
olds. But not Bruce.
The day finally came when Bruce walked into
the jungle and made his first contact with
the Motilone Indians. The first sign of the
tribe was a small rustle in the bushes. The
next thing Bruce knew was a shooting pain in
his leg as of a result from the arrow
sticking out of it. Lying on the ground, he
was soon surrounded by a group of the
savages. They poked hole after hole into
Bruce with their spears. Was this the end?
Had he come so far just to be killed within
minutes of first contact?
Bruce was carried back to their village as
their prisoner. Would they torture him?
What were they waiting for? Maybe they were
cannibals. Three days after his capture,
Bruce came down with amoebic dysentery. He
knew his days were numbered if he didn't
escape. Under the darkness of night, Bruce
made his escape and was able to make it to
help and medical attention.
After recovering from his first experience
with the Motilones, Bruce ventured back into
the dense jungle to attempt contact again.
Soon, he was captured again. This time Bruce
came down with hepatitis. Bruce managed to
escape death again when a helicopter spotted
his distress signal. The Motilones thought
the helicopter was a great bird sent by God
to take Bruce to heaven to keep them from
killing him.
On his third trip back into the jungle, Bruce
was slowly and finally accepted by the
Motilone Indians. They couldn't believe he
had returned. Eventually, Bruce was able to
share his Christian faith in Jesus Christ
with the Indians.
The third chapter title reads, The Beautiful
Sounds I can't Hear. You read about Ludwig
von Beethoven. "I didn't know he was deaf,"
you think to yourself. How did he create
such beautiful music when he couldn't hear?
The fourth chapter is titled, From Blind to
Paradise. You read about the great writer
John Milton. He was blind? How did he
create such incredible word pictures for us?
You think about the first time you read the
poems Paradise Lost and Paradise Regained.
You can hardly wait to get to the fifth
chapter of this little book. Who will be
your fifth mentor? This chapter is simply
titled Freedom.
The chapter begins...The rebellion had been
thoroughly crushed. On December 8, 1776,
General George Washington took what was left
of his battered troops and made his escape
across the Delaware River into Pennsylvania.
As the last American troops began crossing
the river, the first Redcoat pursuers arrived
at the riverbank. However, they were unable
to follow the worn out Americans because
Washington had had the foresight to take with
him every boat within fifty miles.
Freedoms dream appeared to be dead. The
American forces had dwindled to only 5,000
soldiers. With enlistments about to retire
at the first of the year, Washington could be
left with only 1,200 regulars. The one
bright spot was that the over confident
British decided to hold up for the winter and
take care of what was left of the rebels come
spring. British General William Howe took
his troops to New York City to enjoy the
winter months in relative ease and comfort.
Howe did however leave a garrison of German
mercenaries called Hessians in Trenton,
NJ.
The Hessians expected Washington to attack.
In fact, they were exhausted by being on
alert for more than a week because of this
expectation. This worked to Washington's
favor and he did not disappoint the Hessians.
At mid-afternoon Christmas day, Washington
and 2,400 of his troops marched nine miles up
river to McKonkey's Ferry. At 6:00 PM,
General Washington wrote in his diary, "It is
fearfully cold and raw and a snow storm
setting in. The wind is northeast and beats
in the faces of the men. It will be a
terrible night for the soldiers who have no
shoes. Some of them have old rags tied
around their feet, but I have not heard a man
complain."
During the darkness of night in a storm
mixed with snow, rain, and hail, Washington
and his troops began crossing the Delaware
River. It took almost nine hours for the
Continental Army to reach the other side.
By 4:00 AM, the Continental Army had crossed
the river. The Patriots were cold, wet, and
exhausted. Washington urged his men forward.
Some of the soldiers left a trail of blood
from their bare exposed feet.
When the attack began, the Americans gained
the upper hand partly due to the Hessians'
exhaustion. When the Hessians finally tried
to assemble their troops, American artillery
captain Alexander Hamilton was given the
order to fire the cannons at point blank
range. The battle was over within two hours.
Freedoms dream was alive! That day,
Washington and his men killed or captured
1000 Hessians and confiscated many supplies.
Washington then took his troops, prisoners,
and captured supplies back across the
Delaware River victoriously.
You close the little book amazed at what you
just read and learned. Despite their many
handicaps and obstructions, these five
mentors found a way to succeed. As you begin
to walk home, you make a decision....to
succeed. You say out loud to yourself, "It
is about belief and decision. That is
it!"
Isn't that how life is? Belief and
Decision. I am so glad that you picked up
Unlocking the Champion Within. Of all the
books you could have chosen, you chose this
one. I am honored. And I am committed to
showing you the path to your success. I
can't walk that path for you, but I can help
light your path. You will face struggles
along the way, but if you hold onto your
belief and decision then you will succeed.
A number of years ago, as I was struggling
both in my personal life as well as my
professional life, I had a friend who cared
enough about me that he handed me a video
tape. On that tape was a speaker. The
speaker wasn't talking just to me, but on
that day it was as if he were talking only to
me. Though the words he used were few, they
ultimately changed my life. In a booming
voice that knocked off the cobwebs of
mediocrity, the speaker said, "YOU HAVE
GREATNESS WITHIN YOU!" I believed him and
partly because of that is why you are able to
read this book today.
My friend, I know something about you. Even
though I may never have the privilege of
meeting you face to face, I still know
something about you. What I know is that you
too "HAVE GREATNESS WITHIN YOU!" You see,
you and I were born with the seeds of a
champion and we were created by God to live
the best. And that is what this book is all
about....Living the Best! In this book,
we are going to unlock the champion inside
you. We are going to discover the qualities
of the Champion and how to live them in our
lives. And my friend, I encourage you not
just to read this book, I encourage you to
live this book. Take action on what we will
learn together. Because when we act upon
what we learn, that is when success truly
begins and we begin to live the best as
Champions.
I am honored and blessed to be your guide on
your journey of success!
Mark E. Bowser
Excerpted from Mark's book Unlocking the
Champion Within which is due to be released
in October 2007.
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The Blind Spot
By Dr. John C. Maxwell |
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I have almost died on several occasions. I'd
like to blame these near-death experiences on
others, but I suppose they might have
something to do with me. Let me explain...
Anyone who has driven for a length of time in
Atlanta can testify to the horrors of its
traffic situation. I'm sure other cities can
make the claim of worst traffic in America,
but I can't imagine anyplace worse than
Atlanta. To complicate the problem, I
wouldn't describe myself as a particularly
patient person. In fact, my wife might
describe me as downright impatient-and she
would probably be right.
When in traffic, I've always subscribed to
the bob-and-weave philosophy. If rampant lane
changing can save me a car length or two,
then I'll switch lanes like Liz Taylor
switches husbands.
Unfortunately, there have been a few
instances when I've not been diligent in
checking my blind spot when shifting lanes.
And, let me tell you, nothing jolts a person
like the angry honking of a car horn only a
few inches to his left or right! Thankfully,
I've been able to survive without crashing or
receiving anything worse than a friendly wave
of the middle finger from a fellow driver.
Since my blind spot has nearly caused my
demise several times, I now pay extra
attention to it. I double and triple confirm
no cars are there before I merge into another
lane.
Blind spots can wreck a leader's journey. In
this edition of LW, I would like illustrate
one of the most common blind spots I have
observed in leaders. Next edition, I'll
explore a second customary blind spot faced
by leaders, and in each lesson, I'll give you
advice for avoiding the dangers of the blind
spot.
THE BLIND SPOT
The Blind Spot - An area in the lives of
people in which they continually do not see
themselves or their situation realistically.
This unawareness often causes great damage to
the people and those around them.
WHY WE ARE BLIND - A SINGULAR
PERSPECTIVE
Most every leader has a blind spot, in fact,
all probably do. We are trapped in our own
perspectives, unable to see the world
completely from another person's point of
view. We are absorbed in our world, caught in
our present circumstances, consumed by
selfish thoughts, and confined by our narrow
experiences.
To illustrate, consider King George III of
England's journal entry on July 4, 1776:
"Nothing happened today." Of course,
unbeknownst to King George, the American
Declaration of Independence had been issued
that day, and it would change the course of
history.
One reason for our singular perspective can
be attributed to our self-perception, or
attitude toward self. As I wrote in the Lens
Principle: who we are determines how we see
others. A naïve optimist may be blind to the
less-than-ideal intentions of those around
them. Oppositely, an eternal pessimist may be
blind to the kindness of a co-worker, instead
suspecting ulterior motives.
A second cause of singular perspective comes
from our tendency to judge ourselves based on
intentions, while judging others by their
actions. Such a bias allows us to cut
ourselves slack and to justify our actions,
because, after all, we meant well. However,
since we aren't able to see the motives of
others, we evaluate them solely by their
actions. We attribute shortcomings in their
behavior to shortfalls in character without
regard for their present circumstances, mood,
or emotional frame of mind.
We are fully aware of our history, but
ignorant of the background of others. For
this reason, context is the third and final
cause of a blinding singular perspective.
Decisions we take make perfect sense to us
given our beliefs and experiences, but they
may surprise others who are not as familiar
with us. On the other hand, since we don't
know the particulars of another person's
childhood, past relationships, or prior
involvements, we often have trouble
conceiving why the person acts the way he or
she does.
CHECKING YOUR BLIND SPOT - OPENING UP TO
THE PERSPECTIVES OF OTHERS
As trite as it may sound, putting yourself in
another person's shoes does open you to their
perspective. To broaden your limited
perspective, try to envision their opinions
and feelings. Attempt to be aware of their
motives and the values they hold dear.
Leaders avoid the blind spot of singular
perspective when they seek to understand
before seeking to be understood. As I wrote
in Winning with People, "The entire world,
with one small exception, is composed of
others." Followers are focused inwardly, and
they wonder, "How will this affect me?"
Conversely, leaders are focused outwardly,
and they ask, "How will this affect
others?"
Finally, leaders may avoid the blind spot of
singular perspective by examining themselves
before casting blame on others. As Jesus of
Nazareth taught, "Don't pick on people, jump
on their failures, or criticize their faults-
unless, of course, you want the same
treatment. That critical spirit has a way of
boomeranging. It's easy to see a smudge on
your neighbor's face and be oblivious to the
ugly sneer on your own," (Matthew 7:1-3, The
Message).
"This article is used by permission from Dr.
John C. Maxwell's free monthly e-newsletter
'Leadership Wired' available at www.injoy.com.
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~ Henry Ford
"Great things are not done by impulse, but
by a series of small things brought
together."
~ Vincent van Gogh
"I think and think for months, for years.
Ninety-nine times the conclusion is false.
The hundredth time I am right."
~ Albert Einstein
"Much rain wears the marble."
~ William Shakespeare
"Inches make a champion."
~ Vince Lombardi
"Little strokes fell great oaks."
~ Benjamin Franklin
"We cannot do everything at once, but we can
do something at once."
~ Calvin Coolidge
"Great issues develop from small beginnings."
~ Norman Vincent Peale
"An idea is the greatest investment."
~ Mark Bowser
"But be doers of the word, and not hearers
only, deceiving yourselves. For if anyone is
a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is
like a man observing his natural face in a
mirror; for he observes himself, goes away,
and immediately forgets what kind of man he
was."
~ James 1:22-24 NKJV of the Holy Bible
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